Transitions are never too easy but they are simple: you watch, you choose and you take action all in the moment, with love for yourself and others. The main block to change is usually that we don't let it happen or we don't recognize that, really, we need to change cause we are not paying attention. Imagine yourself on a sailboat. You are the sailboat and the equipage. If you don't recognize that the weather has changed and the cap has changed, how can you choose the next manoeuver to sail your boat? So the boat will get into funky places and may be even crash. In our lives, because we are not mindful, not in the present, not loving ourselves enough, we create aches and pain and blockages - we crash, we get miserable - until we don't have a choice but to change. Of course, a change can be very small or very big but the creative process or the process of change must start with:
1- recognize that you or something in your life (relationship for example) are in a transition, a change, a metamorphosis.
2 - Not be afraid to step into the unknown and let the transition happens while making new choices.
3 - Stay aware of where you steer the boat depending on where you are going, watch the weather and circumstances and be responsible (ie: respond with love (not judgement, not fear) and care for yourself and others) in the moment, in the now.
At least, this is what I have tried to do in my life. Sometime I am right on, sometime I am tired to have to steer the boat, to have to change the sail, to have to sail big waves or no waves...but in the end I know that if I keep on doing it with love and care and in the moment, I will get where I chose to go! ...My Dream!
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